DNA Relationships Assessment 10 October 2018 Robert Hilliar Welcome to the Relating Assessment. This Quiz has four sections, with each section having eight question. (that is, 32 questions all told) For the most helpful result, it is suggested you go with your gut-feeling by choosing the first answer that comes immediately to you. This works because there are no right or wrong answers, so to be of most benefit to you, each answer needs to comes from within. Please click Next to start the assessment. Think about what you do when you discover a problem and you are trying to fix it. How likely is it that you will ... 1. Become aggressive and try to find out who caused the problem?Every timeLots of timesHardly everNever 2. Put pressure on those involved to make them admit they did something wrong?Every timeLots of timesHardly everNever 3. Find ways to punish the person or people who did something wrong?All the timeLots of timesHardly everNever 4. Make sure those involved the best solution possible and put it into action?All the timeLots of timesHardlyNever 5. Find out who did the wrong thing and make everybody knows who it was?All the timeLots of timesHardly everNever 6. Walk away, do something else while you try to work out what to do now?All the timeLots of timesHardly everNever 7. Work with those involved to change how things are done so the problem can’t happen again?All the timeLots of timesHardly everNever 8. Work with the people involved to find the best solution possible?All the timeLots of timesHardly everNever Think of what it is like when you and your partner are working together. How likely that in this situation you will ... 1. Be of service to each other?Every timeMost timesOccasionallyNever 2. Take the time to listen intently to each other?Every timeMost timesOccasionallyNever 3. Focus on really understanding each other?Every timeMost timesOccasionallyNever 4. Feel a sense of deep love, enjoyment and pleasure in doing something together?Every timeMost timesOccasionallyNever 5. Disagree with each other about something and then find you cannot continue working together on this?Every timeMost timesOccasionallyNever 7. Find working together to be a mutually satisfying time that is totally joyful?All of the timeMost of the timeOccasionallyNever 6. End up in an emotional major conflict that cannot be resolved at this time? Every timeMost timesOccasionallyNever 8. Find the experience to be a challenging time that you do not like?Every timeMost timesOccasionallyNever Think of times when you and your partner are alone, with no one else around. How likely is that you will ... 1. Feel contended and satisfied? 2. Feel fearful and careful not to provoke an argument?Every timeMost timesOccasionallyNever 3. Talk with each other about the obstacles the relationship has to deal with?Every timeMost timesOccasionallyNever 4. Talk openly and confidently together about the things you are dealing with?Every timeMost timesOccasionallyNever 5. Interact with each other to help you both achieve what you each want to achieve?Every timeMost timesOccasionallyNever 6. Feel excited and invigorated just from being in each other’s presence?Every timeMost timesOccasionallyNever 7. Feel a deep sense of love for both yourself and your partner?Every timeMost timesOccasionallyNever 8. Just talk to each other because you enjoy talking togetherEvery timeMost timesOccasionallyNever Think of what it is like when you and your partner are communicating together. How likely is it that you ... 1. Are both interested in what each other has to say?All the timeLots of timesHardly everNever 2. Have an arguments that you are unable to resolve?All the time timeLots of timesHardly everNever 3. Have heated discussions where you talk loudly in order to get your point across?All the timeMost timesOccasionallyNever 4. Just stop talking and go into silence when you are unable to agree on something?All the timeLots of timesHardly everNever 5. Feel uncomfortable yet you just pretend things are OK when in fact they aren’t?All the timeLots of timesHardly everNever 6. Use abusive and/or derogatory language to put each other down as a way of proving your point?All the timeLots of timeHardly everNever 8. And/or your partner become very forceful as one or both of you tries to insist that the other agrees to a particular point of view? All the timeLots of timesHardly everNever 7. Make each other wrong when one or both of your have a views that the other believes to be the wrong thing?All the timeLots of timesHardly everNever Press "Submit" to watch your result. Name Email Phone Time is Up!