IS THIS WHAT I NEED?

HOW DO I CHANGE?

WHEN YOU’RE OUT OF BALANCE THINGS DON’T GO SO WELL. YOU CAN MOVE ON ONLY WHEN YOU RESOLVE IT, BECAUSE THAT‘S HOW IT WORKS!

If you’re wondering, “Can I resolve and move on?”

YES YOU CAN, especially if …

  1. What you’ve tried already, hasn’t worked.
  2. You feel you’re being pulled you down.
  3. You feel stuck and going nowhere.

But this is NOT for you if …

  1. You want medications to make you feel better.
  2. You want to stay with what you know and are familiar with.
  3. You do not want to go outside-the-box’.

The process used here is you because the changes that come about are from you. The new behaviours in your life come from you. The results are lived by you.

I am here to guide you, to give you strategies and to hold your hand when you’re not sure. What you have to do is allow the process to happen, because then the rest will take care of itself.

This is a process that is kept simple and straight to the point which is what makes it powerful. It’s the way I work with people and you’re invited to CONTACT ME (Robert Hilliar) to discuss how this process can help you move your life forward.

And to make sure our discussion is valuable, you will be given at least one really powerful strategy for getting you moving forward, including a detailed discussion of how to implement the strategy into your life.

THE EXPERIENCE:

This a powerful process for unblocking emotion, one that enables you to be more in-flow than ever with what you want your life to be.

As you are changing, it’s common to feel confronted because you’re working in the deep-deep-deep you, at the very source of your feelings.

That’s why I come in. My role is to guide you, to hold your hand when you’re feeling unsure, and to make certain that you give yourself every opportunity to get the most benefit possible for your efforts.

This is a journey that goes past the advice of friends and family, and into the hidden realms of deep and profound changes.

THE BENEFITS:

Life naturally becomes more complex and demanding, emotion sometimes doesn’t keep up. This is how you we get out of balance!

This gets you back into balance, to where you’re in harmony with the spirit that is you, where you relate more effectively than ever with both yourself and others, and to where you’re even more contented and satisfied living with the people you love and care about most.

How easy is it when you have strategies in place for going past struggle and into the powerful sense of growth and personal well-being. This is where future challenges are easily resolved and intimate relationships continue to be a source of contentment and emotional nourishment.

“IS INTIMACY MAKING YOUR LIFE BETTER OR WORSE?”

MEET ROBERT HILLIAR

PSYCHOLOGIST AND RELATIONSHIP EXPERT

I’m just like everyone else. I too became who I am today as a result of the experience of  life so far; the most profound and life-changing experience being divorce. No big deal perhaps, except at the time I was a marriage guidance counsellor supposedly helping people stay together.

Something wasn’t right. I theoretically had everything I could possibly want to keep my relationship on the straight and narrow, so I had believed I was protected. However, the best help in the world, plus the most well respected theories and the most up-to-date knowledge didn’t help. I still went ahead anyway.

I knew the pain and destruction of divorce that was to come, but it didn’t matter. Rational behaviours and logical thinking wasn’t doing it anymore. I was too far gone to worry about making sense, so my traditional psychological thinking had very little to offer. 

Fast forward 30+ years to now, and I am happily married to Annie for the rest of my life. I know this because when the going get’s tough, we know what to do … we know what works … and we do it!

We also know how to stay committed ‘til death do us part’ and we make sure we work together to deal with challenges whenever they come along. We do this by getting to the source of whatever it is that’s not working, because from there we can resolve it.

This is how we live ‘happily ever after’ and yes, for us this is a beautiful way to live.