Assessment

Welcome to the Your Relationship Rules Assessment.

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1. HOW DO YOU USE HIGH LEVEL SPOOKY STUFF? 

This is a sure-fire way to find and be focused the things that really make a difference. Focusing your precious time and energy specifically on these things enables everything to fall into place! Using High Level Spooky Stuff is the best way to make certain your focus is where you need it to be.

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2. HOW WELL DO YOU LISTEN?

When you listen, just hearing the words and accepting what is being said without regard to what is really going on, is not going to work so well. Listening properly is the way to hear everything your partner is trying to say. The bonus is that when you listen properly, you are also earning the right to be listened to!

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3. HOW DEEPLY DO YOU TALK ABOUT YOURSELF? 

The more you know about what’s really going on in each other’s inner psyche, the more the relationship is enabled to move forward. What you need to know is the stuff that comes from within, from your personal 'deep-down'. When you communicate from there you take the conversation to that place within that the answers you need for dealing with your challenges are.

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4. HOW WELL DO YOU DEAL WITH 'STUCKBURYS'? 

'Stuckburys' are emotion issues that have been stuck inside for so long that they are now buried your 'deep-down'. The origins of these issues generally goes back to your childhood and until these are resolved, they are going to create irrational thoughts, feeling and behaviours. This is especially true during the most challenging times. Please understand that the logic of emotion is very different to ‘normal’ logic. As such you need to know the logic of emotion, so you have the means to clearly know what’s really going on.

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5. HOW DO YOUR CHILDHOOD YEARS EFFECT YOU?

We were all children once and our childhood care-givers were not perfect. They made mistakes, some end up influencing our life today. It is so easy to get trapped into living according to what we learned when we were growing up. This is something that must be sorted out before we can become free to be who we want to be.

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6. HOW WELL DO YOU TURN PROBLEMS INTO OPPORTUNITIES?

Problems usually feel unpleasant, yet most are nothing less than brilliant opportunities in the making, and trying to come into your life. Being able to grasp these opportunities is what makes relationships great. The best way to do this is be working together to transform the flow of problems into the opportunities can be as these arise.

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7. HOW WELL DO YOU ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY?

More than anything else, responsibility is an attitude and a way of thinking. People who routinely live responsibly are those who take ownership for everything they do and are willing to be accountable, especially when they make mistakes. The paradox is that the more responsibility you take, the more in-control you are going to be. This is by accepting responsibility, you automatically take on the power to fix things.

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